Saturday, February 20, 2010

AGE FOR MARRYING

Is there such a thing as a right age for marriage? Does anyone know when is the perfect timing for marriage? Is there a right and a wrong age for marriage?

Many of us will say 23 or 25 is the right age to marry but we cannot control the feelings of other individuals. Some were forced to marry at a young age due to teenage pregnancy and some due to arranged marriage. And some are to marry at a very old age or shall we say late bloomer. Some due to second or third marriages that their previous marriage did not work out.

But what if a couple to get marriage has a 20-year gap or more? Or what if one of the couples' age is the same as the age of the eldest or youngest child of the other couple? Nowadays, this kind of situation is not uncommon. Many celebrities here and abroad share this situation and they are happy. Calista Flockhart and Harrison Ford for instance, Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher, Kris Aquino and James Yap, Tony Boy Cojuanco and Gretchen Barreto.

They are happy with their relationship and yet the age factor does not affect their relationship. Although for some, there are lots of adjustment to be made.

In any relationship there will be no right and wrong. It will always revolved within the couple, their happiness will lies within their own acceptance whether there will be age gap or not. In all ages of relationship, acceptance, respect and love are the important factor to make a relationship going.

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